POC Share Rules They Follow That People Aren’t Aware of

This article was originally published on Excellenttown.com

It is no secret that many people of color in America live by a set of unwritten rules. It’s like a secret society, where the membership fee is a lifetime of navigating microaggressions and systemic racism. From avoiding eye contact with the police to knowing when it’s time to code switch, these unspoken guidelines are a necessary survival manual for living life as a person of color in America. So grab a seat, buckle up, and prepare to learn all about the unwritten rules POC follow every day.

#1: Out of Pocket

Racial profiling happens in almost every situation, from shopping to police encounters. Statistics show that POC, especially Black individuals, are much more likely to be pulled over, searched, and subjected to police brutality. This is a serious issue, highlighting the ongoing racial profiling problems in all aspects of our society.

It’s important to know our rights when dealing with the police and to stay calm in any encounter. If you’re ever stopped, try to remain respectful and always have a trusted friend or family member on speed dial. No one should have to live in fear of the police, but it’s important to be informed and prepared. 

#2: Elevator Drama

Even an elevator is unsafe for POC, especially Black men. It’s very easy to be accused of doing something inappropriate toward a woman in an elevator, which shows racism in our society. Unfortunately, it’s better to be safe than sorry by following this rule of avoiding encounters similar to this in an elevator.

Studies show that Black men are more likely to be arrested and convicted of crimes, even when compared to non-Black individuals who have committed the same offenses. It’s quite a tragic thing to encounter and hard to admit, but it’s the cold, hard truth. Hopefully, one day, things will be better.

#3: Hood On

Often, we have to keep our hoods off our sweatshirts to avoid being perceived as a threat or as up to no good. Unfortunately, this results from negative stereotypes and racial profiling that associates hoods with criminal behavior. In some public spaces, such as malls or government buildings, there may even be formal dress codes.

We must consciously choose to keep our hoods off to avoid any potential conflicts or misunderstandings. It’s just one of many small ways systemic racism can affect daily life and limit personal expression. We need to recognize and challenge these harmful biases and work towards creating a more equitable and inclusive society.

#4: Be a Good Student

When you’re a child, all you want to do is have a little bit of fun. Whilst you might also find enjoyment in many other things, having fun with your friends in class and on the playground is probably one of the greatest parts of your day. But some kids don’t have the luxury of messing around in class…

Sure, sitting at the front of the classroom is a surefire way to concentrate better in class with fewer distractions. However, most kids probably don’t think they are going to get in bad trouble if they don’t sit in the front row… We hate to think that some children of color have to go through such confusing things in their childhood.